Eros Matters

Episode 9 - Period Power & Pleasure

Menstruation is natural, yet it's often wrapped in stigma and silence. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee breaks down common myths about periods, explores the latest menstrual products, and shares practical ways to manage period discomfort with confidence. She also discusses period poverty in Singapore and why open conversations about menstrual health matter. Whether you want to improve your cycle experience or simply understand your body better, this episode empowers you with knowledge, self-care tips, and a fresh perspective on your period. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, Singapore’s trusted source for menstrual wellness products.

Episode 8 - Vaginismus: When Sex Hurts

Painful sex isn't something you just have to "live with"—and vaginismus is far more common than most people realize. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee sheds light on this misunderstood condition, explaining why it happens, debunking harmful myths, and sharing real client stories of healing. With over a decade of experience specializing in vaginismus treatment, she offers a compassionate, step-by-step approach to overcoming the fear, pain, and emotional toll it can bring. Discover practical strategies, effective treatment options, and the importance of self-compassion in reclaiming pain-free intimacy. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this episode provides expert guidance for those ready to move from pain to pleasure.

Episode 7 - Erectile Dysfunction: Rising to the Occasion

Erectile dysfunction (ED) is more common than you think, but the real challenge isn't just finding solutions—it's knowing how to navigate the moment when it happens. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee breaks down the physical and psychological factors contributing to ED, from medical conditions to work stress and performance anxiety. She shares real client stories, practical strategies for handling ED with confidence, and what to say before, during, and after intimacy. Plus, learn about treatment options available in Singapore, including shockwave therapy, counseling, and lifestyle adjustments. Whether you or your partner are facing this challenge, this episode provides clear, compassionate guidance to help you shift from performance anxiety to pleasure and connection. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, Singapore’s premier destination for intimate wellness solutions.

Episode 6 - Too Fast, Too Slow: Finding Balance

Struggling with finishing too fast or taking too long? Premature ejaculation (PE) and delayed ejaculation (DE) are more common than you think—and they don’t have to be sources of shame. In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and relationship counselor, breaks down the causes, emotional impact, and evidence-based solutions for both conditions. From practical techniques and communication strategies to medical and psychological support, learn how to navigate these challenges with confidence. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, Singapore’s trusted provider of intimate wellness products, this episode empowers you with real solutions to find balance in your intimate experiences. Tune in for expert insights and actionable advice!

Episode 5 - How to Be a Better Lover: Practical Tips for Deepening Intimacy

Want to be a better lover? Deepening intimacy isn’t just about technique—it’s about self-awareness, vulnerability, and genuine connection. In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and relationship counselor, shares practical tips for enhancing intimacy, from mindful touch and communication to trust-building and playful exploration. Whether you’re looking to improve emotional closeness or enhance physical pleasure, these evidence-based strategies can transform your intimate relationships. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, Singapore’s trusted provider of intimate wellness products, this episode offers actionable insights to help you connect more deeply with yourself and your partner. Tune in and take your intimacy to the next level!

Episode 4 - Porn, Sex, or Toy Addiction?

Is watching porn too often a sign of addiction? What about relying on sex toys or frequent sexual activity? In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and AASECT-certified sexuality educator, breaks down the myths and realities of so-called "porn, sex, and toy addiction." She explains how cultural shame and misinformation often fuel unnecessary fears, highlights the difference between problematic behavior and normal sexual expression, and offers guidance on when to seek professional help. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, Singapore’s trusted provider of sexual wellness products, this episode encourages a healthier, more informed approach to sexual pleasure. Tune in to explore a balanced perspective on desire and self-expression!

Episode 3 - Solo Play: The Guilt-Free Guide to Self-Pleasure

Masturbation is one of the most natural forms of self-discovery, yet it remains surrounded by myths and cultural shame. In this episode, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, clinical sexologist and AASECT-certified sexuality educator, explores the realities of solo play—debunking misconceptions, sharing research-backed insights, and addressing concerns around frequency, relationship status, and sex toys. She also unpacks how societal conditioning, especially in Asian cultures, contributes to feelings of guilt and shame around self-pleasure. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, Singapore’s premier destination for sexual wellness products, this episode encourages a healthier, more informed relationship with your body. Tune in to embrace pleasure without guilt!

Episode 2 - Sexology Secrets Revealed

Explore the science of sexuality with Dr. Martha Tara Lee, AASECT-certified sexuality educator and clinical sexologist. In this revealing episode, she demystifies sex, sexuality, and sexology, clarifying how these interconnected concepts shape our relationships and wellbeing. With over 10,000 hours of professional training and a doctorate in human sexuality, Dr. Lee breaks down common misconceptions while highlighting the unique challenges faced in Asian contexts. Learn the crucial differences between sex coaches, therapists, and clinical sexologists as she shares insights from her practice in Singapore. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this episode provides clear, professional guidance to help you understand sexuality through a scientific lens. Whether you're seeking personal insight or professional clarity, discover how evidence-based sexology can enhance your understanding of intimate wellness.
 
 
 

Episode 1 - Welcome to Eros Matters!

Welcome to Eros Matters with Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Singapore's AASECT-certified sexuality educator and clinical sexologist since 2009. Each episode explores sexuality and relationships in our Asian context, going beyond physical intimacy to understand how cultural expectations and personal experiences shape our connections. Drawing from her decade of experience and recognition as one of Her World's Top 50 Inspiring Women, Dr. Lee creates a safe space for honest conversations about topics many hesitate to discuss. Through practical insights and actionable advice, she helps you navigate intimacy with confidence and clarity. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, Singapore's premier destination for sexual wellness, Eros Matters empowers you to embrace your authentic self and create more fulfilling relationships. Tune in to transform your understanding of sexuality and enrich your journey toward deeper connection.