Eros Matters

Episode 19: Pleasure Without Limits

In this powerful episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores what it means to embrace sexuality while living with chronic illness or disability. Intimacy is a human right—not a luxury for the able-bodied.
Dr. Martha debunks common myths, reframes pleasure beyond penetration, and offers practical tools for adapting intimacy to your body’s needs. From vibrators and lubricants to communication strategies and emotional connection, this episode is a reminder that sexuality is about creativity, not perfection.
Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this is your invitation to redefine intimacy on your own terms—with comfort, confidence, and joy.

Episode 18: Coping with Infidelity in Relationships

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the painful but important topic of infidelity. Why do people cheat? Can trust be rebuilt? And should you stay or go?
With research-backed insights and practical guidance, Dr. Martha offers a compassionate roadmap for navigating betrayal, rebuilding emotional safety, and making empowered decisions—whether you’re healing or helping someone through it.
Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this is your reminder that intimacy begins with truth, not perfection.

Episode 17: Building Emotional Connection

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the core of meaningful relationships—emotional connection. Whether you’re navigating the early stages of love or nurturing a long-term bond, she shares why emotional intimacy isn’t just nice to have—it’s essential for lasting connection, satisfying sex, and mutual growth.
With research-backed insights and practical tools, Dr. Martha unpacks what emotional closeness looks like, why it sometimes fades, and how to rebuild it through quality time, active listening, and vulnerability. From gendered differences in intimacy to the power of small gestures and gratitude, this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for couples who want to feel closer. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this is your reminder that intimacy begins long before the bedroom—and that listening, not fixing, might be the sexiest thing you can do.

Episode 16: Beyond Monogamy

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee delves into the evolving landscape of non-monogamy, offering a compassionate and grounded guide for those curious about relationship styles beyond monogamy. Drawing from both historical context and modern practice, she explores open relationships, polyamory, swinging, and relationship anarchy—clarifying what they mean and how they function.
With real stories and cultural insight from Asia, Dr. Martha highlights common pitfalls like jealousy, poor communication, and rushing into new dynamics. She offers practical strategies—setting boundaries, building trust, and moving slowly—to help couples navigate non-monogamy with care. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this episode reminds listeners that expanding your relationship structure isn’t about having more partners—it’s about having more clarity, consent, and connection.

Episode 15: Spicing Things Up (Kink)

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee offers a welcoming introduction to kink, demystifying what it is—and isn’t—with clarity, warmth, and consent at the core. Whether you're curious or cautious, this episode explores the world of kink in a judgment-free way, helping listeners understand key practices, myths, and safety principles.
From sensory play and role-play to foundational frameworks like SSC and RACK, Dr. Martha shares a real-life story of a couple exploring kink for the first time. She breaks down how communication, boundaries, and aftercare create the foundation for healthy exploration. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this episode invites you to approach kink not as something taboo—but as a mindful, consensual path to deeper intimacy and trust.

Episode 14: Low Sex Drive vs Sexual Desire Discrepancy

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the often-misunderstood topic of sexual desire discrepancy—when partners want sex at different frequencies or in different ways. She unpacks the difference between low sex drive and mismatched desire, sharing real client stories and research-backed insights on how to navigate these intimate gaps with compassion and clarity.
From hormonal differences and cultural expectations to emotional stress and relational disconnect, Dr. Martha highlights the many layers that influence libido. With practical strategies like boundary setting, open communication, and reframing expectations, she helps listeners rediscover intimacy beyond performance or obligation. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this episode reminds us that desire isn’t just spontaneous—it can be cultivated with care, intention, and mutual understanding.

Episode 13 - Sexy after Baby

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee dives into the tender topic of postpartum intimacy, exploring how couples can stay connected emotionally and physically after having a baby. She shares real stories and research-backed insights on the impact of parenting on relationships, highlighting challenges like exhaustion, shifting dynamics, and emotional distance. With practical strategies—from scheduling intimacy to building emotional safety—Dr. Martha offers compassionate, realistic ways to nurture connection in the chaos of new parenthood. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this episode reminds listeners that intimacy may look different after baby, but it can still be deeply meaningful.

Episode 12 - Sexual Healing

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the realities of postpartum intimacy, offering heartfelt guidance on how couples can reconnect emotionally and physically after having a baby. She shares common struggles like exhaustion, shifting dynamics, and emotional distance, and provides practical strategies such as scheduling intimacy, creating couple time, and building emotional safety. Backed by research and real client stories, this episode reminds new parents that intimacy can be rebuilt—with patience, teamwork, and compassion. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, supporting parents in their journey back to connection at their own pace.

Episode 11 - Adult Toys 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Exploration and Connection

In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee demystifies the world of adult toys, sharing how they can enhance intimacy, pleasure, and communication — whether you're exploring solo or with a partner. She addresses common myths (like fears around addiction or desensitization), offers practical tips for having "the toy conversation," and walks listeners through a beginner-friendly guide to choosing the right products. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, this episode is packed with compassionate advice, real research, and a body-positive approach to starting your journey with confidence and curiosity.

Episode 10 - Hot Mama

Post-baby sex can feel like a faraway concept—especially when exhaustion, hormonal shifts, and feeling “touched out” take over. In this episode of Eros Matters, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explores the physical realities of postpartum desire, why low libido is completely normal, and how new parents can gently reconnect with intimacy at their own pace. From self-compassion to non-sexual touch, she offers practical steps for navigating this tender chapter with empathy and honesty. Sponsored by Pink Lifestyle, your go-to for body-safe products that support postpartum pleasure and wellness.